Marge (Fiorentino) Van Houten
Marge (Fiorentino) Van Houten
Reunion Presentation
It’s an honor to be with you fellow sojourners in life
Since 1958 we have experienced joy, we have weathered strife
But we are here to have fun and celebrate our survival
So let me try to rekindle through some memory revival
The CHS experience of one fifties teenager
Similar yet different from others here I’ll wager
It all began when 2 ninth grade friends, Maureen Curran and I
Decided to attend CHS after graduating from Forest Park Junior High
We took the exam, were accepted…. high school, what fun!
Then reality surfaced, what have we done?
Imagine the angst and such great trepidation
Beginning our experience of Catholic High School education
But up the steps to the hayloft we went that Sept. morn
Looking a little bit bewildered and somewhat forlorn
To meet our classmates and teachers who were already acquainted
We, public school girls, did they think we were tainted?
And the first time for us, being taught by a nun
Was the dynamic duo for sophomore curriculum
Sister Walter Maria and Sr. Patty Joe
Would happy school days be soon filled with woe?
As it turned out in the end we had nothing to fear
When we studied a lot and went into full gear
To the shock of the sisters who were truly floored
We public school girls academically soared
Even more shocking was how well we behaved
We truly were good girls not at all depraved
Aside: Once you had to write 100 times “it is not doing the things you like to do but liking the things you have to do that make life pleasant” in perfect penmanship you learned it was easier to ”toe the line”
We understood there was blatant discrimination
Being a girl at CHS had its limitation
Physical education programs were organized around all-boy sports teams
Girls were considered non-athletic it seems
But once those basic issues were mostly resolved
We settled back and thankfully a social life evolved
Maureen was the envy of many a girl
She had so many beaus; her life was a –twirl
I like many a poor teen afflicted
With acne and unbelievably poor image addicted
Finally listened to my mother and put on a smile
And tried to be happy and not filled with bile
We both became involved with activities extra-curricular
Much more fun than chemistry’s all things molecular
Maureen became (before Abba) the Minstrel’s Dancing Queen
I thought the Glee Club was really quite keen
Maureen turned many a youthful boys’ heads
When tiptoeing through those Dutch tulip beds
I became a member of the “Boo Hoo” quartet
A Minstrel group one time performance we all wanted to forget
We agonized over Mari-like dresses for dances
Involved we became in some innocent romances
St. Theresa Club meetings with Fr. McClure
Who strived to make sure we all stayed quite pure
We spent our formative years in a virtual cocoon
Not necessarily ideal for what would come soon
But this was an unusual time in our country’s history
And the innocence that pervaded was quite a mystery We know there were families who were not like those in "Leave it to Beaver”
And mothers that never resembled June Cleaver
But we were in general totally oblivious
To what in later years became a bit obvious
That life wasn’t as simple as the Catholic Church preachings
And there was much to be learned from other faith’s teachings
And although the education was sometimes provincial Much of it became quite beneficial
The nuns taught us to recognize the right from the wrong
And the fathers inspired us on the field and in song
And as students we were prepared for some of the challenges ahead
Then life gave us lessons along the paths we were led
In the meantime there were:
Football games, basketball games, smoking on the busses
Maureen and I fully engaged but avoided some of the fusses
We enjoyed the friendships of diverse groups
We knew nothing of divisiveness among the many troops
Holy Name, Mt. Carmel, Our Lady of Hope
Parish identity, we didn’t have the dope
So we could remain “Switzerland” in all our relations
Until the class culture became the “League of Nations”
The class learned that life wasn’t about “from whence we came”
Respect and tolerance was the name of the game
By senior year we truly were one
And 50 yrs. later when all’s said and done
It seems we have maintained that wonderful zest
For celebrating life for all of its best
Knowing full well we won’t escape the tomorrows
With its constant challenges and its sorrows
But for tonight let us celebrate and remember
All the good times we had from January to December
Every year we spent as the class of 58
How wonderful that was to have as our fate
So from your treasurer who thought it really quite funny
That in all of her tenure there was never any money
And the secretary who recorded nary a class meeting
Who now joins me in giving this heartfelt greeting
Let’s toast the friendships, the achievements, the laughter, the fun
The fabulous memories that are second to none
And let us remember this wonderful night
When we came together at an occasion truly “out of sight”
With thanks to the members of the reunion committee
Whose praises we sing in this little ditty
So let’s raise a glass of wine, coke or beer
And to the class of 58 sing out a cheer
With hopes that there’ll be more days in the sun
Before life is over and our time here is done
And to us all ……. newest golden panthers who join all the others
Let us go forward as sisters and brothers
To face the future whatever it may bring
And always be there with voices to sing
That we had a very special time and a story
We were part of Cathedral in all of its glory
Here’s to the class of ‘58